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What is this site?

CFF(NZ) is a place where you can meet single Christians.  You can add your details and then browse the profiles of other Christian Singles.  If you find someone interesting you can send them a message (anonymous).


I tried to register for the site and saw a message that an email with an activation link was being sent.  I didn't receive it.  Why? 

Unfortunately Hotmail users (including windowslive) are not receiving the registration email.  You will need to register using a different email address.  There is no problem with gmail and yahoomail.

Another reason you didn't receive this email could be because the email has been filtered into the spam folder.  This happens with TelstraClear users.  However there is a solution for TelstraClear users.  The email can be viewed by logging into your webmail.


I clicked on the activation link but I can't login to the site.  Why?

You need to wait until we send you a message approving (or not) your registration. 

How do I add a photo to my profile? 

If you are a member, you can upload an image in the members' page.  Click on 'my gallery' e.g. under Public photos run your mouse underneath and click on 'upload'.  Browse and find your photo file. 'Open' and wait for your photo to download.  To show your photo in place of the smiley face, select photo and click on 'set as avatar'.

How do I change my username?

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How do I change my password?

Under 'User Menu' click on 'Your Details'.  Type your new password twice and save it.


How do I send a message to another member?
Log in and find the person's profile in the membership area.  Then click on ‘send a message’.  When you send them a message, they get an email with instructions on how to reply.  Your email address is never revealed to them so it is completely confidential.  Likewise, you can't see their email address.

How do I receive a message?
If someone sends you a message, you will receive an email to let you know.  You can also click on "Read your mail" in the membership area (if you are logged in) to have a look at all the messages you have sent and received.  Your email address is never revealed to the person sending you a message.

How much does it cost to join CFF?

We offer a Free Trial Membership for seven days so that you can view details of other singles and send and receive messages (Trial membership limit of three messages per day).  After that the options for Full Membership (unlimited messages) are:

$20 for two months

$40 for six months

How do I pay my membership fee?

You can pay by internet banking, PayPal or cheque.

Internet banking.   Simply direct credit to 38 9002 0404202 00  Kiwibank.  Please include your username.

Credit card.  Please use PayPal on our website.  Login to the site and click on 'My membership'.  Click on 'upgrade membership' etc.

Cheque.   Please make cheques to Christian Friendship Fellowship (NZ).


Who runs CFF?
CFF is run by Norma Laing who is a committed Christian and is a member of a Baptist church in Nelson.  Norma has a passion for ministry to Christian Singles.

When is the next CFF camp?
There have been many CFF camps over the years.  Some have been real highlights of CFF.  At present there are no plans to run future camps.

How long has CFF been running for?
CFF started in the UK where many social activities and holiday tours offer Christian friendship for single Christians.  A couple who met through CFF(UK) started CFF in New Zealand in 1983.  We joined CFF after finding it difficult to meet other Christian singles in our churches.  Norma and David have been co-ordinating CFF(NZ) since 1989.

Will other people see my personal information?
Your personal information (such as your real name, email or street address) will never be revealed to other members by us.  The only way another member can get your information is if you give it to them when you send them a message.  What most members do when they contact another member is to send a few messages back and forth via our site.  If they feel comfortable with that person one of them sends their email address via a message.  It is completely up to you if you choose to do this.

What if someone starts harassing me?

Your personal information (including your name) is never revealed to any member until you choose to reveal it.  If someone is sending you inappropriate messages, please email us immediately and we will investigate. For more information, see the rules and principles (terms and conditions).

How do I cancel my membership?
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What is your privacy policy?

Privacy Statement

Christian Friendship Fellowship New Zealand.
Christian Friendship Fellowship New Zealand recognizes the importance of protecting the privacy of our members and visitors to our Web site while permitting us to conduct legitimate business by providing services and information of interest to our members and visitors. Our privacy policy is stated below:

Collection and Storage of Information:
We will collect certain personal information, including your name, address, and e-mail address, when you register for our services or contact us.  We maintain this information in our database.  We may also collect additional information, such as in connection with special offers, contests, or other promotions.

Use of Information:
The information provided is used to provide the service or product requested; to enable us to contact you back; to provide you with information about related products and services; to improve our Web site and for development of new products and services. 
The information you provide us, will not be forwarded to any third party.

Christian Friendship Fellowship New Zealand is not responsible for the privacy policies of Web sites to which this site may link.




Members quotes

“I have met a very special Christian lady. I wish to thank you for providing me the courage to step out....."


“We have met each other recently and have decided to pursue a friendship......there is a real need for friendship for the ‘older’ single group of adults - both for companionship and the opportunity to meet new people possibly for a future partner. We really believe in your ministry and the confidential way it is set up..."

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